Day: October 17, 2021

expert response and next step

In the last week I reached the psychologist in the variety show (SEE YOU AGAIN) . I am very happy that I received her reply. She gave me some information on how to design a card psychology game. To help people who need intimacy get to know each other better, she also recommended me a card game for me as a reference.

1. Simulate differentiated relationships:
Setting a time boundary to simulate the difference between the initial and long-term relationships. For example, setting an 18-month boundary in the game will only affect progress related to the difference question during the game. Everyone will develop a “differentiated” perspective. Re-understand the emotional needs of different stages.
2. Set character chess pieces, set different images(maybe can overcome the power dynamic you mentioned before)
3. Setting question card: Card content includes: money concept, family concept, sexual concept, emotional bottom line.
4. Setting interactive card : intimate interactions to get closer (for example, imitating the other’s tone to say a word)

the picture is a card game that expert (shenyifei) recommended. This is a communication game. In the game, we need to complete this life map. For example, the starting point of the map is 20 years old and the ending point is 80 years old. The game lasts 40 minutes to one hour. Throw the dice in turns, the chess pieces can move according to the number of dice, and stop in the grid of how old they are to answer the corresponding questions or complete the interactive game. And everyone has a silence card, respects the adult’s right to remain silent, and has a chance to not answer questions in the game

next step：

think about the outline of the game

think about the question card and interactive card in the game ( The questions in the game will be based on the questions designed by some famous psychologists. For example, American psychologist Arthur Aron did a study. He designed a series of questions to test the degree of improvement in the relationship between each other. Eexperiments have shown that these problems make the participants feel that the intimate relationship between each other has increased.)